Glasgow drag performer speaks on protecting lgbt+ identity this pride month
Sally Saint Scot speaks with Sonia Mangan, Interim Lead Officer about their connection with dementia and the importance of identity within the LGBT+ community.
As Pride Month drew to a close, Glasgow drag performer Sally Saint Scot from the Corset Club is encouraging greater recognition of the unique experiences of LGBTQ+ people impacted by dementia. In a new conversation with Sonia Mangan from The Dementia Trust, Sally and Sonia discuss the importance of protecting someone's identity and dignity when faced with a dementia diagnosis.
An estimated one in two people will be directly affected by dementia during their lifetime. For LGBTQ+ people, dementia can also bring additional challenges around identity and ensuring that those providing care understand the life they have lived.
Sally reflects on witnessing the impact of dementia firsthand through their Grandmother’s own lived experience and the fears many LGBTQ+ people face about losing not only their memories, but also the confidence and identity they have spent a lifetime building. Sally said: "When a family member is directly impacted by dementia, your mind is really opened to the reality of it. It's a life changing experience. What I have observed the most is the frustration. The consistent beating yourself up when you know the answer but can’t communicate."
For Sally, and other members of the LGBT community, dementia raises difficult questions about maintaining a sense of self.
"When you see it happen to someone else, the biggest thing for me is fear. Everyone has their own experience of being a queer person and coming to terms with that. You have to build up such confidence within yourself.
"As both a queer man and Drag performer, you are so aware each day of the fight to be seen and respected for who you are. I can’t even think how that would be impacted if dementia were to enter my life personally”
The conversation also highlights the importance of planning ahead, including putting in place a Power of Attorney to ensure that decisions are made by someone who truly understands your wishes, whether that is family, friends or chosen family.
"It's so important to stop and think and put things in place before it is too late. You really have no idea what is around the corner." Sally said.
Sonia Mangan, Interim Lead Officer at The Dementia Trust said: "The Dementia Trust believes everyone deserves to be seen, heard and supported throughout their dementia journey. Let's all try to make sure we understand who people are at their heart. By sharing stories like Sally's, we hope to encourage conversations about inclusive dementia care and celebrate the diversity of those living with dementia. If people can do anything for us this Pride month, be curious and ask questions.”
To listen to the full interview, please visit: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=g8WueJRVH_g
You can follow Sally on Instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/sallysaintscot/
